Chosen, but imperfect

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Thank God today that he is your Provider. Everything we have comes from him. We have good reason to be grateful and we can trust him for the future.

Bible passage

1 Samuel 25:1–22

25 Now Samuel died, and all Israel assembled and mourned for him; and they buried him at his home in Ramah. Then David moved down into the Desert of Paran.

A certain man in Maon, who had property there at Carmel, was very wealthy. He had a thousand goats and three thousand sheep, which he was shearing in Carmel. His name was Nabal and his wife’s name was Abigail. She was an intelligent and beautiful woman, but her husband was surly and mean in his dealings – he was a Calebite.

While David was in the wilderness, he heard that Nabal was shearing sheep. So he sent ten young men and said to them, ‘Go up to Nabal at Carmel and greet him in my name. Say to him: “Long life to you! Good health to you and your household! And good health to all that is yours!

‘“Now I hear that it is sheep-shearing time. When your shepherds were with us, we did not ill-treat them, and the whole time they were at Carmel nothing of theirs was missing. Ask your own servants and they will tell you. Therefore be favourable towards my men, since we come at a festive time. Please give your servants and your son David whatever you can find for them.”’

When David’s men arrived, they gave Nabal this message in David’s name. Then they waited.

10 Nabal answered David’s servants, ‘Who is this David? Who is this son of Jesse? Many servants are breaking away from their masters these days. 11 Why should I take my bread and water, and the meat I have slaughtered for my shearers, and give it to men coming from who knows where?’

12 David’s men turned round and went back. When they arrived, they reported every word. 13 David said to his men, ‘Each of you strap on your sword!’ So they did, and David strapped his on as well. About four hundred men went up with David, while two hundred stayed with the supplies.

14 One of the servants told Abigail, Nabal’s wife, ‘David sent messengers from the wilderness to give our master his greetings, but he hurled insults at them. 15 Yet these men were very good to us. They did not ill-treat us, and the whole time we were out in the fields near them nothing was missing. 16 Night and day they were a wall around us the whole time we were herding our sheep near them. 17 Now think it over and see what you can do, because disaster is hanging over our master and his whole household. He is such a wicked man that no one can talk to him.’

18 Abigail acted quickly. She took two hundred loaves of bread, two skins of wine, five dressed sheep, five seahs of roasted grain, a hundred cakes of raisins and two hundred cakes of pressed figs, and loaded them on donkeys. 19 Then she told her servants, ‘Go on ahead; I’ll follow you.’ But she did not tell her husband Nabal.

20 As she came riding her donkey into a mountain ravine, there were David and his men descending towards her, and she met them. 21 David had just said, ‘It’s been useless – all my watching over this fellow’s property in the wilderness so that nothing of his was missing. He has paid me back evil for good. 22 May God deal with David, be it ever so severely, if by morning I leave alive one male of all who belong to him!’ LORD

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David was a godly man but not without his faults. The forbearance he showed to Saul is absent in his response to Nabal. Here he impetuously plans revenge. If he carries it through, it will be a major mistake, wrong before God and losing him respect with ordinary people.

Instead of appreciating the protection that David gave his servants, and lacking a generous heart, Nabal refuses to help the ‘outlaw’ band. It would be customary at a time of festivity like sheep-shearing for the rich to share with the poor, but Nabal is cold-hearted. David’s kindness towards the shepherds deserves a better response but Nabal is foolish and arrogant.

David for his part, wearied by living hand-to-mouth in the wilderness, is stressed by the constant threat to his life. Maybe the responsibility of feeding his men is getting to him. Moments of intense pressure can cause tempers to fray and judgement to become cloudy. Even good people have a breaking point.

The day is saved by Abigail’s gentle spiritual wisdom. She diffuses the situation by kindly giving David’s men the supplies they need. 

Author
Tony Horsfall

Respond

Pray: ‘Lord, help me to be more self-aware, to recognise when I am being foolish or over-reacting because I am stressed. Make me more generous and kinder in my response towards others, and in the way I steward my resources. Amen.’ 

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