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How does it feel when you cannot understand what God is doing?
Bible passage
Samson’s marriage
14 Samson went down to Timnah and saw there a young Philistine woman. 2 When he returned, he said to his father and mother, ‘I have seen a Philistine woman in Timnah; now get her for me as my wife.’
3 His father and mother replied, ‘Isn’t there an acceptable woman among your relatives or among all our people? Must you go to the uncircumcised Philistines to get a wife?’
But Samson said to his father, ‘Get her for me. She’s the right one for me.’ 4 (His parents did not know that this was from the Lord, who was seeking an occasion to confront the Philistines; for at that time they were ruling over Israel.)
5 Samson went down to Timnah together with his father and mother. As they approached the vineyards of Timnah, suddenly a young lion came roaring towards him. 6 The Spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon him so that he tore the lion apart with his bare hands as he might have torn a young goat. But he told neither his father nor his mother what he had done. 7 Then he went down and talked with the woman, and he liked her.
8 Some time later, when he went back to marry her, he turned aside to look at the lion’s carcass, and in it he saw a swarm of bees and some honey. 9 He scooped out the honey with his hands and ate as he went along. When he rejoined his parents, he gave them some, and they too ate it. But he did not tell them that he had taken the honey from the lion’s carcass.
10 Now his father went down to see the woman. And there Samson held a feast, as was customary for young men. 11 When the people saw him, they chose thirty men to be his companions.
12 ‘Let me tell you a riddle,’ Samson said to them. ‘If you can give me the answer within the seven days of the feast, I will give you thirty linen garments and thirty sets of clothes. 13 If you can’t tell me the answer, you must give me thirty linen garments and thirty sets of clothes.’
‘Tell us your riddle,’ they said. ‘Let’s hear it.’
14 He replied,
‘Out of the eater, something to eat;
out of the strong, something sweet.’
For three days they could not give the answer.
15 On the fourth day, they said to Samson’s wife, ‘Coax your husband into explaining the riddle for us, or we will burn you and your father’s household to death. Did you invite us here to steal our property?’
16 Then Samson’s wife threw herself on him, sobbing, ‘You hate me! You don’t really love me. You’ve given my people a riddle, but you haven’t told me the answer.’
‘I haven’t even explained it to my father or mother,’ he replied, ‘so why should I explain it to you?’ 17 She cried the whole seven days of the feast. So on the seventh day he finally told her, because she continued to press him. She in turn explained the riddle to her people.
18 Before sunset on the seventh day the men of the town said to him,
‘What is sweeter than honey?
What is stronger than a lion?’
Samson said to them,
‘If you had not ploughed with my heifer,
you would not have solved my riddle.’
19 Then the Spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon him. He went down to Ashkelon, struck down thirty of their men, stripped them of everything and gave their clothes to those who had explained the riddle. Burning with anger, he returned to his father’s home. 20 And Samson’s wife was given to one of his companions who had attended him at the feast.
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Children experience their parents’ faith values from birth. Soon afterwards, parents begin to be challenged as their child’s character, willpower and independence emerge. Samson’s parents have a son who is both strong-willed and physically strong! As Samson was chosen by God before his conception, they abided by the Nazirite dietary regulations. They want him to marry within the Israelite community (v 3). Had they known the honey he shared with them had come from the carcass of a dead lion (v 9), forbidden by Jewish law, they’d have been appalled.
They could not know about the future (v 4), that God would use their son to separate the Israelites from the Philistines. As the Philistines ‘rule’ over Israel (v 4) the two nations currently appear to intermingle, evidence of Israel’s compromising faithlessness to God. Yet, for all Samson’s fury, the Spirit of the Lord comes upon him (vs 6,19). However poor his personal choices, he is still in the hands of God. His parents receive him back home after this dreadful escapade.
Christian parents have a God-given responsibility to pass on their faith to their children, by personal role-modelling, words and actions, and, like Samson’s parents, have no idea of the future choices their child will make.
Respond
Pray for Christian parents you know as they seek to nurture their child’s relationship with Christ, and pray for any parents whose child appears to have turned from Christ (for the time being).
Bible in a year
Read the Bible in a year: Mark 7; Colossians 4
Pray for Scripture Union
A number of churches across Wales are now taking part in an all-age rural Revealing Jesus pilot project based on the Go Wild Resource. This involves using outdoor learning to explore faith as whole families. Please pray that God will move in power in the lives of these families.
Seasonal training to help you journey with the 95!
When you sign up to receive Mission Support you get access to some brilliant online training opportunities! On the 30th September and the 1st of October we’ll be looking at how we journey with the 95 across the autumn and winter months and how we can connect with children and young people who are yet to know Jesus.