Slices
Prepare
Reflect: What or who is beautiful to you? What sort of language do you use to describe beauty?
Bible passage
He
4 How beautiful you are, my darling!
Oh, how beautiful!
Your eyes behind your veil are doves.
Your hair is like a flock of goats
descending from the hills of Gilead.
2 Your teeth are like a flock of sheep just shorn,
coming up from the washing.
Each has its twin;
not one of them is alone.
3 Your lips are like a scarlet ribbon;
your mouth is lovely.
Your temples behind your veil
are like the halves of a pomegranate.
4 Your neck is like the tower of David,
built with courses of stone;
on it hang a thousand shields,
all of them shields of warriors.
5 Your breasts are like two fawns,
like twin fawns of a gazelle
that browse among the lilies.
6 Until the day breaks
and the shadows flee,
I will go to the mountain of myrrh
and to the hill of incense.
7 You are altogether beautiful, my darling;
there is no flaw in you.
8 Come with me from Lebanon, my bride,
come with me from Lebanon.
Descend from the crest of Amana,
from the top of Senir, the summit of Hermon,
from the lions’ dens
and the mountain haunts of leopards.
9 You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride;
you have stolen my heart
with one glance of your eyes,
with one jewel of your necklace.
10 How delightful is your love, my sister, my bride!
How much more pleasing is your love than wine,
and the fragrance of your perfume
more than any spice!
11 Your lips drop sweetness as the honeycomb, my bride;
milk and honey are under your tongue.
The fragrance of your garments
is like the fragrance of Lebanon.
12 You are a garden locked up, my sister, my bride;
you are a spring enclosed, a sealed fountain.
13 Your plants are an orchard of pomegranates
with choice fruits,
with henna and nard,
14 nard and saffron,
calamus and cinnamon,
with every kind of incense tree,
with myrrh and aloes
and all the finest spices.
15 You are a garden fountain,
a well of flowing water
streaming down from Lebanon.
She
16 Awake, north wind,
and come, south wind!
Blow on my garden,
that its fragrance may spread everywhere.
Let my beloved come into his garden
and taste its choice fruits.
He
5 I have come into my garden, my sister, my bride;
I have gathered my myrrh with my spice.
I have eaten my honeycomb and my honey;
I have drunk my wine and my milk.
Friends
Eat, friends, and drink;
drink your fill of love.
Explore
Every bride is beautiful on her wedding day! While the imagery describing the bride (1–7) sounds bizarre to modern ears – hair like goats, neck like a tower! – these images are book-ended by affirmations about her beauty (4:1a,7). In Hebrew thought, ‘seven’ symbolised perfection or completeness. As the groom’s eyes move slowly down her body, mention of seven aspects – eyes, hair, teeth, lips/mouth, temples, neck, breasts – emphasises that he finds her ‘altogether beautiful’ (4:7).
After praising the wonders of her body, the groom initiates sexual intimacy – symbolised by the image of a ‘garden’ containing all manner of pleasing plants and exotic spices (4:12–15). Here, for the first time, he calls her ‘my bride’ – a phrase said six times (4:8–12; 5:1). Before the wedding, this garden was ‘locked’ (v 12); there was a level of intimacy that was out of bounds: ‘Do not arouse or awaken love…’ (2:7; 3:5). But now, it is right to ‘awake[n]’ love (v 16)! The bride, earlier veiled (4:1), is unveiled before her husband and responds eagerly to his invitation, without a hint of shyness or shame (v 16). Their union is deeply satisfying (5:1). The closing invitation is, literally, ‘drink your fill of love’ (5:1). While the Bible frowns on intoxication, this intoxication is God- endorsed: ‘May you ever be intoxicated with her love’ (Proverbs 5:19).
Respond
How can your church help all believers, married or unmarried, to ‘honor marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband’ (Hebrews 13:4, The Message)?
Bible in a year
Read the Bible in a year: Daniel 6,7; 2 John
Pray for Scripture Union
Please pray for the children Mel is working with in the New Forest, that they will have a deep experience of God’s love, and that they will respond and grow in faith. (This week's prayers relate to this article)