Giving and receiving

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Do you prefer to give to others or to receive from them? When it comes to God, which do you find easier, giving or receiving?

Bible passage

Philippians 4:10–23

Thanks for their gifts

10 I rejoiced greatly in the Lord that at last you renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it. 11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength.

14 Yet it was good of you to share in my troubles. 15 Moreover, as you Philippians know, in the early days of your acquaintance with the gospel, when I set out from Macedonia, not one church shared with me in the matter of giving and receiving, except you only; 16 for even when I was in Thessalonica, you sent me aid more than once when I was in need. 17 Not that I desire your gifts; what I desire is that more be credited to your account. 18 I have received full payment and have more than enough. I am amply supplied, now that I have received from Epaphroditus the gifts you sent. They are a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, pleasing to God. 19 And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.

20 To our God and Father be glory for ever and ever. Amen.

Final greetings

21 Greet all God’s people in Christ Jesus. The brothers and sisters who are with me send greetings. 22 All God’s people here send you greetings, especially those who belong to Caesar’s household.

23 The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.

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Celebrities interviewed for a magazine are sometimes asked if they prefer to give or to receive, or neither or both. Paul would probably answer, ‘Both!’ He had given his life over to serving God and had given up everything for the sake of knowing Christ (3:8). Elsewhere, he wrote a list of his sufferings for the gospel (2 Corinthians 11:16–33). In particular, he has showered his love and affection upon these Christians.

For their part, they have a history of being generous towards him (v 16). Most recently, Epaphroditus has brought a gift from them to him in prison (v 18). How far do you think Paul is saying, ‘I don’t need anything! You needn’t have bothered’, or ‘Thank you, I’m really grateful’? Again, both are probably true. Paul has learned to be content (v 11). 

I grew up thinking verse 13 meant that I could do and be anything I want. The sky is the limit. (I realised that was impossible.) Paul meant that he accepted whatever came his way in life because God’s strength in him was inexhaustible. 

We may be generous and grumble like the Philippians. But essentially, God calls us to be content, living a cross-shaped life, like Jesus. We receive far more than we give.

Author
Ro Willoughby

Respond

‘May the ever-flowing grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, the inexhaustible generosity of God and the union with the Holy Spirit be with us all. Amen.’

Deeper Bible study

Thank God for the person who led you to Christ. Was it just one person or were there others supporting them, perhaps financially? 

‘I rejoiced greatly in the Lord’ (v 10). By now we are not surprised that Paul says this. He’s urged us repeatedly in this letter to rejoice.1 As emphasised in the Introduction to these notes, he wants us to know ‘solid joys’.2 He feels it himself and knows how wonderful it is. He doesn’t direct us to focus on joy per se, but on the reasons we have for rejoicing: we are ‘in the Lord’. Paul does not so much pursue joy, rather he pursues Christ and resolutely focuses on him and his gospel, giving himself in the service of Christ and of Christ’s people. He does this knowing that this is the way we experience true joy. 

We see this with particular clarity as Philippians comes to its conclusion. As Paul thanks the church for their generous support, he says that what they give is ‘credited’ to their account (v 17). They are investing in gospel work and partnering closely with Paul. In a very real sense, they share the ‘credit’ for every sermon preached, every person saved, every church planted, every believer discipled. They are buying into a work which is offering great and eternal returns. Here are ‘treasures in heaven’, treasures that will last for ever.3 The Philippians are not losing out through their sacrifice; far from it (vs 18,19). Rather, they are investing in the bank of heaven. Let’s follow their example and speculate to accumulate! 

Finance and festivity are not often thought of together, yet the connection is entirely appropriate. The investment Paul is talking about yields great dividends now, with many further returns to come. Where we spend our money reveals much about our true priorities. If someone reviewed our finances, what would they conclude was most important to us? 

Review your financial giving and, if possible, commit to give more – cheerfully, as an investment for the future. Thank God for the joy which is – and will be – yours. 

1 Phil 3:1; 4:4  2 John Newton, 1725–1807, ‘Glorious Things of Thee are Spoken’  3 Matt 6:20

Author
Peter Morden

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