Slices
Prepare
Be thankful that God is at work in spite of us and our many failings. Be thankful too that he graciously chooses to use us to fulfil his purposes.
Bible passage
30 After Isaac finished blessing him, and Jacob had scarcely left his father’s presence, his brother Esau came in from hunting. 31 He too prepared some tasty food and brought it to his father. Then he said to him, ‘My father, please sit up and eat some of my game, so that you may give me your blessing.’
32 His father Isaac asked him, ‘Who are you?’
‘I am your son,’ he answered, ‘your firstborn, Esau.’
33 Isaac trembled violently and said, ‘Who was it, then, that hunted game and brought it to me? I ate it just before you came and I blessed him – and indeed he will be blessed!’
34 When Esau heard his father’s words, he burst out with a loud and bitter cry and said to his father, ‘Bless me – me too, my father!’
35 But he said, ‘Your brother came deceitfully and took your blessing.’
36 Esau said, ‘Isn’t he rightly named Jacob? This is the second time he has taken advantage of me: he took my birthright, and now he’s taken my blessing!’ Then he asked, ‘Haven’t you reserved any blessing for me?’
37 Isaac answered Esau, ‘I have made him lord over you and have made all his relatives his servants, and I have sustained him with grain and new wine. So what can I possibly do for you, my son?’
38 Esau said to his father, ‘Do you have only one blessing, my father? Bless me too, my father!’ Then Esau wept aloud.
39 His father Isaac answered him,
‘Your dwelling will be
away from the earth’s richness,
away from the dew of heaven above.
40 You will live by the sword
and you will serve your brother.
But when you grow restless,
you will throw his yoke
from off your neck.’
41 Esau held a grudge against Jacob because of the blessing his father had given him. He said to himself, ‘The days of mourning for my father are near; then I will kill my brother Jacob.’
42 When Rebekah was told what her elder son Esau had said, she sent for her younger son Jacob and said to him, ‘Your brother Esau is planning to avenge himself by killing you. 43 Now then, my son, do what I say: flee at once to my brother Laban in Harran. 44 Stay with him for a while until your brother’s fury subsides. 45 When your brother is no longer angry with you and forgets what you did to him, I’ll send word for you to come back from there. Why should I lose both of you in one day?’
46 Then Rebekah said to Isaac, ‘I’m disgusted with living because of these Hittite women. If Jacob takes a wife from among the women of this land, from Hittite women like these, my life will not be worth living.’
28 So Isaac called for Jacob and blessed him. Then he commanded him: ‘Do not marry a Canaanite woman. 2 Go at once to Paddan Aram, to the house of your mother’s father Bethuel. Take a wife for yourself there, from among the daughters of Laban, your mother’s brother. 3 May God Almighty bless you and make you fruitful and increase your numbers until you become a community of peoples. 4 May he give you and your descendants the blessing given to Abraham, so that you may take possession of the land where you now reside as a foreigner, the land God gave to Abraham.’ 5 Then Isaac sent Jacob on his way, and he went to Paddan Aram, to Laban son of Bethuel the Aramean, the brother of Rebekah, who was the mother of Jacob and Esau.
6 Now Esau learned that Isaac had blessed Jacob and had sent him to Paddan Aram to take a wife from there, and that when he blessed him he commanded him, ‘Do not marry a Canaanite woman,’ 7 and that Jacob had obeyed his father and mother and had gone to Paddan Aram. 8 Esau then realised how displeasing the Canaanite women were to his father Isaac; 9 so he went to Ishmael and married Mahalath, the sister of Nebaioth and daughter of Ishmael son of Abraham, in addition to the wives he already had.
Explore
Esau’s grudge against Jacob (very understandable in the circumstances, but not commendable) leads to yet more deception from Rebekah. Once again, she focuses on Jacob’s welfare and organises an escape route for him (vs 43,44). Subsequently she lies to Isaac about the reason for Jacob’s departure (v 46). But – as always – God is in control of the situation and turns it around for good. Although Rebekah would never see her younger son again, Jacob eventually marries Leah, Rachel, Bilhah and Zilpah! Between them, they present Jacob with 12 sons – the founders of the nation of Israel. That story is for another time!
How can we learn from these events? Had Rebekah, Esau and Jacob (and Isaac too) chosen to do things in God’s time and God’s way, they would have avoided the breakdown of their family and the subsequent anguish. Looking back over Abraham’s story, what stands out more than anything else? For me, it’s God’s faithfulness, his graciousness and his mercy. Abraham and his family were far from perfect, but God worked through their shortcomings to fulfil his plan for his chosen people and, ultimately, the whole world.
Respond
As we reflect on the faith of Abraham and his descendants, ask God to increase your faith as you seek to follow his way too. Pray for courage and resilience when you face trials and tests.
Bible in a year
Read the Bible in a year: Exodus 1,2; Psalms 11,12
Pray for Scripture Union
Pray for Mission Partner Hunsley Christian Youth Trust at the start of the new term. Pray especially for their new assistant worker Michael as he settles into his role with the trust.