Slices
Prepare
Who do you consider are your partners in the faith? Pray for them and thank God for the things you share together.
Bible passage
1 Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother,
To Philemon our dear friend and fellow worker – 2 also to Apphia our sister and Archippus our fellow soldier – and to the church that meets in your home:
3 Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
Thanksgiving and prayer
4 I always thank my God as I remember you in my prayers, 5 because I hear about your love for all his holy people and your faith in the Lord Jesus. 6 I pray that your partnership with us in the faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of every good thing we share for the sake of Christ. 7 Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord’s people.
Paul’s plea for Onesimus
8 Therefore, although in Christ I could be bold and order you to do what you ought to do, 9 yet I prefer to appeal to you on the basis of love. It is as none other than Paul – an old man and now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus – 10 that I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains. 11 Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.
Explore
Christmas: a time of being in touch, and perhaps letter writing! It’s doubtful though that our letters bear the solidness and passion of Paul’s letter to Philemon, or will still be worth reading so many years later. Paul is in prison for his faith. But he keeps his finger on the pulse of praise and service to God and the Christian community. Here he is writing to Philemon about his runaway slave Onesimus who has shown up in prison in Rome (v 10).
Paul feels a special kinship with Onesimus because Paul has led him to Christ (v 10). He is aware that the responsibility of signposting someone to salvation does not end with the ‘amen’ to a prayer of commitment. Follow-up and nurture will be needed.
The letter is also addressed to the church that meets in the house of Philemon (v 2), so it is not only the leaders who should be concerned to welcome him back. He is no longer a slave but their equal as a man of God. He will need a lot of care and building up and this will be the responsibility of all of them.
Respond
Think about some of the people you have shared your faith with (whatever stage of their journey they’re at, whether you are still in touch or not). Pray that they might be surrounded by members of Christ’s body to help them to grow.
Deeper Bible study
‘… welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God.’1 Thank God for the influence of other Christians in your life.
Paul, in prison, has met up with the runaway slave, Onesimus, who has come to faith and whom Paul values as a son. Paul counts Onesimus’ owner, Philemon, who is a leader of a house church in Colossae (vs 1,2)2 as a brother and co-worker. This, he believes, gives him the right to make his appeal. First, he affirms the nature of the relationship and the value he places on Philemon. When we discuss delicate matters with others, there is strength in showing respect and love.3 He appeals to Philemon not on the basis of his right as senior (v 8), but on the basis of partnership in the gospel (v 6). Much dissension in the church could be avoided if we followed his example.
As I write, Black Lives Matter is forcing a rethink of historic attitudes. This raises the awkward question of why the Bible seems to condone slavery, why Paul does not condemn it and why the church has so often been complicit in it. Given his context, Paul is placing a time bomb under the institution. Slaves in the first century had mixed fortunes, but even those who had responsible positions under good masters – which was rare – had no rights. Slaves were property. They were useful in the way that a microwave or a computer are useful. By calling him ‘son’ (v 10), Paul accords Onesimus a whole new status. When, in a pun on his name,4 he refers to him as ‘useful’ (v 11) it is because Onesimus genuinely has something to contribute beyond the simply utilitarian. To us this is hardly surprising; in Paul’s context it was revolutionary. This, a direct consequence of Jesus’ coming to the world, has consequences for the way we view people today; are there ways in which our words, actions or social media posts diminish or undermine others?
Pause to think about how you view others – are there people whom you should be honouring and blessing through your words and actions?
1 Rom 15:7, ESV 2 See Col 4:17 3 Eph 4:16 4 Onesimus means useful
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