Love languages

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Prepare

Offer to God those things that concern you today. You might find it helpful to hold clenched fists in front of you and then release them open to God as you pray.

Bible passage

Hosea 6:1 – 7:2

Israel unrepentant

6 ‘Come, let us return to the Lord.
He has torn us to pieces
    but he will heal us;
he has injured us
    but he will bind up our wounds.
After two days he will revive us;
    on the third day he will restore us,
    that we may live in his presence.
Let us acknowledge the Lord;
    let us press on to acknowledge him.
As surely as the sun rises,
    he will appear;
he will come to us like the winter rains,
    like the spring rains that water the earth.’

‘What can I do with you, Ephraim?
    What can I do with you, Judah?
Your love is like the morning mist,
    like the early dew that disappears.
Therefore I cut you in pieces with my prophets,
    I killed you with the words of my mouth –
    then my judgments go forth like the sun.
For I desire mercy, not sacrifice,
    and acknowledgment of God rather than burnt offerings.
As at Adam, they have broken the covenant;
    they were unfaithful to me there.
Gilead is a city of evildoers,
    stained with footprints of blood.
As marauders lie in ambush for a victim,
    so do bands of priests;
they murder on the road to Shechem,
    carrying out their wicked schemes.
10 I have seen a horrible thing in Israel:
    there Ephraim is given to prostitution,
    Israel is defiled.

11 ‘Also for you, Judah,
    a harvest is appointed.

‘Whenever I would restore the fortunes of my people,
7 whenever I would heal Israel,
the sins of Ephraim are exposed
    and the crimes of Samaria revealed.
They practise deceit,
    thieves break into houses,
    bandits rob in the streets;
but they do not realise
    that I remember all their evil deeds.
Their sins engulf them;
    they are always before me.

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Explore

When my now husband and I were preparing to get married, we were asked if we knew what our ‘love languages’ were and if we knew each other’s. It sparked a ‘debate’ between us about how I had thoughtfully, or so I had thought, bought us theatre tickets as a surprise for his birthday. It turned out that John did not like surprises and what he appreciated most about birthdays was being able to specify what he wanted. I could pretend that this was the last time that we’ve had crossed wires but 16 years on, it’s happened quite a few more times! 

Fortunately, it’s not this complicated where God is concerned. God sees our heart. God sees our intentions. We do not need to package our love for God in particular ways. Equally, nothing gets past God. God sees our inner motives hidden beneath our outer performance – when we’re doing the sacrifices and the burnt offerings, as it were, but it doesn’t match up with our desires (v 6). God knows when our ‘love is like the morning mist, like the early dew that disappears’ (v 4).
 

Author
Suzy Pearson

Respond

What does God see in your heart? What motivates you? Is there anything that you try to keep hidden? Pray: ‘Holy God, make my love for you steadfast. Amen.’

 

Bible in a year

Read the Bible in a year: Isaiah 3–5; 2 Timothy 1

Pray for Scripture Union

Pray for Mission Partner Future Vision in Sudbury; their main worker, Ian, retires after working for over 20 years. Thank and praise God for all that he has done through Ian. Pray that as they seek someone to take his place God will lead to the right person for this role.