Slices
Prepare
Today is April Fool’s Day. Ask the Lord to give you wisdom and keep you from foolishness.
Bible passage
Warning against adultery
5 My son, pay attention to my wisdom,
turn your ear to my words of insight,
2 that you may maintain discretion
and your lips may preserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;
4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps lead straight to the grave.
6 She gives no thought to the way of life;
her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.
7 Now then, my sons, listen to me;
do not turn aside from what I say.
8 Keep to a path far from her,
do not go near the door of her house,
9 lest you lose your honour to others
and your dignity to one who is cruel,
10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
and your toil enrich the house of another.
11 At the end of your life you will groan,
when your flesh and body are spent.
12 You will say, ‘How I hated discipline!
How my heart spurned correction!
13 I would not obey my teachers
or turn my ear to my instructors.
14 And I was soon in serious trouble
in the assembly of God’s people.’
15 Drink water from your own cistern,
running water from your own well.
16 Should your springs overflow in the streets,
your streams of water in the public squares?
17 Let them be yours alone,
never to be shared with strangers.
18 May your fountain be blessed,
and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.
19 A loving doe, a graceful deer –
may her breasts satisfy you always,
may you ever be intoxicated with her love.
20 Why, my son, be intoxicated with another man’s wife?
Why embrace the bosom of a wayward woman?
21 For your ways are in full view of the Lord,
and he examines all your paths.
22 The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare them;
the cords of their sins hold them fast.
23 For lack of discipline they will die,
led astray by their own great folly.
Explore
‘I have been married for several years and love my partner but I recently met someone else.’ So began a recent letter to a newspaper advice column. If the writer of Proverbs were asked for advice in such a situation, his reply would be to avoid the source of temptation and rekindle your love for your partner.
These chapters of Proverbs are written as advice to a young man and reflect the roles of men and women in the society of the time. In the Good News Bible all the advice is addressed to ‘my child’ rather than ‘my son’, but the pressures on men and women are different. What advice on relationships would you give to a young woman living in today’s society, or to single people, or to those attracted to members of their own sex?
The 2018 BBC TV drama series The Split focused on a family firm of divorce lawyers. Despite seeing the emotional and financial costs of infidelity for their clients, some of the lawyers failed to be faithful to their own spouses. Viewers saw the resulting effects on reputations, relationships and finances, just as predicted in verses 7–10. Verse 21 reminds us that our actions are seen not by TV viewers but by the Lord himself. What will he think of our actions today?
Respond
Pray for those dealing with the results of broken relationships and for agencies that provide help, support and advice.
Bible in a year
Read the Bible in a year: Joshua 1–3; Psalm 37
Pray for Scripture Union
Pray for Revealing Jesus Pioneer Nic Findlay and the Faith Guides she supports across Merseyside, as they journey alongside young people. Pray particularly for creativity in creating new spaces where children and young people outside the church can encounter Jesus.