Outward appearances…

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‘Be thou my wisdom, and thou my true word; I ever with thee and thou with me, Lord’ (translated Mary E Byrne, 1880–1931). However big the decision, God wants us to receive his wisdom.

Bible passage

1 Samuel 16:1–23

16 The Lord said to Samuel, ‘How long will you mourn for Saul, since I have rejected him as king over Israel? Fill your horn with oil and be on your way; I am sending you to Jesse of Bethlehem. I have chosen one of his sons to be king.’

But Samuel said, ‘How can I go? If Saul hears about it, he will kill me.’

The Lord said, ‘Take a heifer with you and say, “I have come to sacrifice to the Lord.” Invite Jesse to the sacrifice, and I will show you what to do. You are to anoint for me the one I indicate.’

Samuel did what the Lord said. When he arrived at Bethlehem, the elders of the town trembled when they met him. They asked, ‘Do you come in peace?’

Samuel replied, ‘Yes, in peace; I have come to sacrifice to the Lord. Consecrate yourselves and come to the sacrifice with me.’ Then he consecrated Jesse and his sons and invited them to the sacrifice.

When they arrived, Samuel saw Eliab and thought, ‘Surely the Lord’s anointed stands here before the Lord.’

But the Lord said to Samuel, ‘Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.’

Then Jesse called Abinadab and made him pass in front of Samuel. But Samuel said, ‘The Lord has not chosen this one either.’ Jesse then made Shammah pass by, but Samuel said, ‘Nor has the Lord chosen this one.’ 10 Jesse made seven of his sons pass before Samuel, but Samuel said to him, ‘The Lord has not chosen these.’ 11 So he asked Jesse, ‘Are these all the sons you have?’

‘There is still the youngest,’ Jesse answered. ‘He is tending the sheep.’

Samuel said, ‘Send for him; we will not sit down until he arrives.’

12 So he sent for him and had him brought in. He was glowing with health and had a fine appearance and handsome features.

Then the Lord said, ‘Rise and anoint him; this is the one.’

13 So Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the presence of his brothers, and from that day on the Spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon David. Samuel then went to Ramah.

David in Saul’s service

14 Now the Spirit of the Lord had departed from Saul, and an evil spirit from the Lord tormented him.

15 Saul’s attendants said to him, ‘See, an evil spirit from God is tormenting you. 16 Let our lord command his servants here to search for someone who can play the lyre. He will play when the evil spirit from God comes on you, and you will feel better.’

17 So Saul said to his attendants, ‘Find someone who plays well and bring him to me.’

18 One of the servants answered, ‘I have seen a son of Jesse of Bethlehem who knows how to play the lyre. He is a brave man and a warrior. He speaks well and is a fine-looking man. And the Lord is with him.’

19 Then Saul sent messengers to Jesse and said, ‘Send me your son David, who is with the sheep.’ 20 So Jesse took a donkey loaded with bread, a skin of wine and a young goat and sent them with his son David to Saul.

21 David came to Saul and entered his service. Saul liked him very much, and David became one of his armour-bearers. 22 Then Saul sent word to Jesse, saying, ‘Allow David to remain in my service, for I am pleased with him.’

23 Whenever the spirit from God came on Saul, David would take up his lyre and play. Then relief would come to Saul; he would feel better, and the evil spirit would leave him.

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Job interviews can be challenging for both candidate and interviewer. Here Samuel was involved in a critically important selection process, nothing less than the choice of a new king. To make it harder, he was alone – no interview panel to share the load. Fortunately, God was guiding him through the process (vs 1,2,7,12). 

The usual advice when going for a job interview is to make a positive impact as you enter the room. It makes a lot of sense, it’s certainly much better than making a negative impact! Intentionally or not, Eliab made such an impact on Samuel: surely he must be God’s choice (v 6). But God’s perspective is different. The interior is more important than the exterior (v 7). And so the parade continues. Seven sons and none of them is the right one. Is there no one else?

So often, as here, the unlikely choice is the right one. The youngest son, David, wasn’t even present (v 11). He may have been good looking but God had already removed appearance from the selection criteria (v 7). What really mattered was that he was God’s choice (v 12). And God not only called him, he equipped him (v 13).

Author
Emlyn Williams

Respond

Are you facing big decisions or choices? Ask God to help you see beyond the obvious and discern his way forward.
 

Deeper Bible study

Think of a time when you misjudged a person or situation. Reflect on what went wrong.

Once I was on a selection committee, choosing a leader for a specific ministry. We prayerfully considered the candidates, but our impressions misled us. We ignored or did not see what we should have noticed. Discernment is a critical skill we need, not only when selecting someone for ministry, but in knowing whom to trust, reading people in everyday situations and recognising God’s ways. Today’s passage reflects on some of the issues that may interfere with our perceptions. 

First, we notice Samuel, who is still grieving for Saul, the king the Lord rejected (v 1). Emotional attachment can blind us to someone’s faults and we may hold out hope for change long after we should move on. Second, we can be fooled by our impressions, as Samuel was when he looked at Jesse’s firstborn son (v 6). In the ancient world, a king’s imposing physique would inspire confidence when he led his troops to battle. In our modern context, we may be swayed by eloquence, education or a person’s charm or charisma. These do matter and David himself will turn out to be good-looking with many talents (vs 12,18), but giftedness does not guarantee godliness and without the latter the former can become a liability.

What is encouraging is that God cares for his people and he has already ‘seen’ or ‘seen to’ (v 1, Hebrew; NIV ‘chosen’) a king for himself, one ‘after his own heart’.1 This point is unwittingly affirmed by Saul’s unnamed servant who has ‘seen’ David’s many gifts, but recognised, most importantly, that ‘the Lord is with him’ (v 18). It is to Samuel’s credit that he relies on God’s judgement, rather than on his own perceptions, and will not compromise on the candidate when the right one does not immediately emerge (vs 10,11).

Pray for godly discernment in Christian leadership and for ourselves that we may navigate life’s challenges with wisdom. 

1 1 Sam 13:14

Author
Csilla Saysell

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