What defines me

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Consider some identities you have – parent, spouse, friend, worker, retiree. What most defines you? Pray for God’s strength in the roles you have. 

Bible passage

Psalm 31

For the director of music. A psalm of David.

In you, Lord, I have taken refuge;
    let me never be put to shame;
    deliver me in your righteousness.
Turn your ear to me,
    come quickly to my rescue;
be my rock of refuge,
    a strong fortress to save me.
Since you are my rock and my fortress,
    for the sake of your name lead and guide me.
Keep me free from the trap that is set for me,
    for you are my refuge.
Into your hands I commit my spirit;
    deliver me, Lord, my faithful God.

I hate those who cling to worthless idols;
    as for me, I trust in the Lord.
I will be glad and rejoice in your love,
    for you saw my affliction
    and knew the anguish of my soul.
You have not given me into the hands of the enemy
    but have set my feet in a spacious place.

Be merciful to me, Lord, for I am in distress;
    my eyes grow weak with sorrow,
    my soul and body with grief.
10 My life is consumed by anguish
    and my years by groaning;
my strength fails because of my affliction,
    and my bones grow weak.
11 Because of all my enemies,
    I am the utter contempt of my neighbours
and an object of dread to my closest friends –
    those who see me on the street flee from me.
12 I am forgotten as though I were dead;
    I have become like broken pottery.
13 For I hear many whispering,
    ‘Terror on every side!’
They conspire against me
    and plot to take my life.

14 But I trust in you, Lord;
    I say, ‘You are my God.’
15 My times are in your hands;
    deliver me from the hands of my enemies,
    from those who pursue me.
16 Let your face shine on your servant;
    save me in your unfailing love.
17 Let me not be put to shame, Lord,
    for I have cried out to you;
but let the wicked be put to shame
    and be silent in the realm of the dead.
18 Let their lying lips be silenced,
    for with pride and contempt
    they speak arrogantly against the righteous.

19 How abundant are the good things
    that you have stored up for those who fear you,
that you bestow in the sight of all,
    on those who take refuge in you.
20 In the shelter of your presence you hide them
    from all human intrigues;
you keep them safe in your dwelling
    from accusing tongues.

21 Praise be to the Lord,
    for he showed me the wonders of his love
    when I was in a city under siege.
22 In my alarm I said,
    ‘I am cut off from your sight!’
Yet you heard my cry for mercy
    when I called to you for help.

23 Love the Lord, all his faithful people!
    The Lord preserves those who are true to him,
    but the proud he pays back in full.
24 Be strong and take heart,
    all you who hope in the Lord.

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This psalm records the anguish of a person under siege – physically (v 21) and emotionally (v 9). Strength is failing (v 10). It is not only enemies that are the problem. Even close friends are turning away (v 11). The psalmist is alone, surrounded by whispers and betrayal (v 13). How easy to be crushed at times such as this. So often we let circumstances or others’ opinions define us. 

Yet there is another way. Note the psalmist’s defiant ‘but’ in verse 14. The psalmist looks to God to be his refuge and strength (vs 2,3). His life is in God’s hands (v 15).  When the world is falling apart, God alone can be trusted to set his people in a secure and ‘spacious place’ (v 8). 

This prayer of lament by David has been used by believers throughout the centuries in times of distress and danger. Jesus prayed it as he hung on the cross (Luke 23:46). Despite those who betrayed him he was confident of who he was and God’s purposes for him. The psalm can help us do the same. We can discover our true identity as a child of God and, like Jesus, say, ‘Into your hands I commit my spirit’ (v 5). 

Author
Richard Trist

Respond

In this coming week watch out for times when difficulties or the opinions of others begin to shape your identity. Refuse to be shaped by this. Be who you really are. 

Deeper Bible study

Open yourself to God as you read and pray this psalm.

This psalm contains the last words of Jesus as he died on the cross, so it has a special attraction and poignancy for us (v 5).1 Here is the restful certainty of the psalmist in the midst of a host of troubles. Jesus is not the only one to quote this psalm. Jeremiah and Jonah also seem to use it.2 In turn, we can see the psalmist picking up other phrases from Scripture, including the Aaronic blessing in verse 16. Here is the fullness of a life of faith in the light of Scripture and here is the benefit of having phrases of Scripture floating around in our heads to be a comfort in times of distress. 

The core of the psalmist’s anxiety is fear of his enemies. Whilst there may be physical attacks, it seems that the main form of attack is verbal: damaging the reputation of the psalmist and causing his neighbours to turn on him. The rhyme that says that ‘sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me’ is not true for the psalmist. Verbal assaults produce physical and psychological reactions and the sense that words will soon be followed by hostile actions. In such a situation, the psalmist seeks God’s help and he prays that the wicked will be silenced in death.

Personal experience of the goodness of God is to be shared. The psalmist calls on the whole congregation to love the Lord. Here is a distinction from other religions. Not only do we have a God who loves and cares for us so that we can trust him absolutely but he is also one whom we can love in return. Our times are in his hands, and we have the hope that there is still an abundance of good things he has stored up for us. 

Tell the Lord how much you love him.

1 Luke 23:46  2 Jer 6:25; 20:3; 20:10; 46:5; 49:29; Jonah 2:8,9

Author
Ray Porter

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Read the Bible in a year: Exodus 11,12; Matthew 22

 

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SU Hong Kong will be celebrating their 60th anniversary this year. Praise God for his continual love, grace and provision for them, and his blessing throughout the years. Pray that they will be able to celebrate God’s goodness in ways that glorify his name.